I visited Royal Oak, Michigan, for Savage Love Live at the Royal Oak Music Theatre. I didn’t get to all of the questions submitted by the large and tipsy crowd—a crowd that skipped the Stormy Daniels interview on 60 Minutes to spend the evening with me (so honored, you guys!)—so I’m going to race through as many of the unanswered questions as I can in this week’s column. Here we go . . .
A: Common enough to have numerous different ways of manifesting itself—swinging, hot wifing, cuckolding, stag-and-vixen play—and an entire porn genre dedicated to it.
Q: I can easily have an orgasm with toys, but I can’t have one with my boyfriend. What gives?
A: When I’m totally stressed out and don’t have the bandwidth to give my husband the attention/time he deserves, I take a moment now and then to reassure him that things will settle down soon. I’ve found he’s most receptive to this message when it’s delivered immediately after I’ve taken a few minutes to blow him.
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